Will I Have to Settle in Marriage?
If you’re single, you may be looking out at all the prospects that are around you, and wondering, “Am I going to have to settle in marriage?” Are your dreams for the kind of guy you want going to have...
View ArticleConfessions of a Desperate (Single) Woman
What do you do when you feel desperate to get married–but you’re still single years after you thought you’d be? I’ve been writing about singleness this week–how to increase your chances of marriage,...
View ArticleWhat We Need Stop Saying to Single People
Sometimes, even though we’re well-meaning, we end up saying really stupid things to single people. It’s Thursday morning, and the bedhead is real with me today. I meant to get up early and write an...
View ArticleWhen Should I Give My Heart Away?
“I’ve met someone I really like–but should I fall in love with him?” When is a man worth falling in love with? On Monday I like to take a reader question and answer it, but as we’ve been talking about...
View ArticleWhy Do We Think We Can Change “Bad Boys”?
The other night I was home alone, bored, so I checked Netflix to see if there were any good movies. It told me I’d give The Rewrite with Hugh Grant and Marisa Tomei four stars, so I clicked play....
View ArticleCan We Stop Saying Singleness is God’s Will?
If you’ve never been married, does that mean that it was always God’s will that you would be single? I think we talk about that a lot–that people are “called to singleness”, as if God decides before...
View ArticleHow Can the Church Handle Singleness Better?
We had a great discussion the other day on how we talk about singleness and God’s will. Tons of comments, and lots of really insightful back and forth, and I want to continue the conversation today....
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